I hate it whenever my girlfriend & I can’t talk on the phone at night. This summer, my goal is to help her just relax & not to worry about everything so much. Especially when she plans. Most of the times the plans that we make fall through anyways. By “most of the time” I really mean that our so called ‘plans’ have never went the way that we wanted it too & we’d just have to do something completely different. So I’m really going to attempt to help her enjoy each day & not worry about all the little details of life. I feel like this will be good for our relationship. This whole thing of us releasing our stress on each other & not being able to talk on the phone at night because we’re too tired is really frustrating for me. People don’t realize how much I actually love my girlfriend. Yes, I may vent sometimes on here about it but I mostly vent to my friends or family. They hear how frustrated I become & yet most of my guy friends say to give her the backhand or some variation of male dominance. But, honestly, I don’t want to have full control of our relationship. I want one where both boyfriend & girlfriend have the opportunity to have control in a certain area of the relationship. But most of all, I don’t want a relationship where we fight/argue during the day & make up at night before we go to bed. I love making my girl happy at all times of the day, but when she’s stressed, I’m stressed. Then I don’t know what to do about it because she gets me aggravated when she doesn’t have that much patience due to her stress level. Oh well. I need to suck it up & toughen it out for her. Basically, I just want her to know that I’m trying my best. And I don’t even know how to do that. Summer just needs to come fast.